as not elicited by meretricious arts and calculated manoeuvres; and one had but to accept it—to answer what he asked without pretension; to address him when needful without grimace—and it increased and grew kinder and more genial; and warmed one like a fostering sunbeam。 How will she manage to please him when they are married? I do not think she will manage it; and yet it might be managed; and his wife might; I verily believe; be the very happiest woman the sun shines on。”
I have not yet said anything condemnatory of Mr。 Rochester’s project of marrying for interest and connections。 It surprised me when I first discovered that such was his intention: I had thought him a man unlikely to be influenced by motives so monplace in his choice of a wife; but the longer I considered the position; education; &c。; of the parties; the less I felt justified in judging and blaming either him or Miss Ingram for acting in conformity to ideas and principles instilled into them; doubtless; from their childhood。 All their class held these principles: I supposed; then; they had reasons for holding them such as I could not fathom。 It seemed to me that; were I a gentleman like him; I would take to my bosom only such a wife as I could love; but the very obviousness of the advantages to the husband’s own happiness offered by this plan convinced me that there must be arguments against its general adoption of which I was quite ignorant: otherwise I felt sure all the world would act as I wished t